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2. Narcissistic
3. Obsessive and compulsive
4. Falls "instantly" in love
5. Manipulative
6. Does not take responsibility for own feelings or actions
7. Needs to have control over others
8. Socially awkward or uncomfortable
9. Views self as a victim of society, family, and others
10. Unable to take "no" for an answer
11. Deceptive
12. Often switches between rage and "love"
13. Difficulty distinguishing between fantasy and reality
14. Sense of entitlement ("You owe me...")
15. Unable to cope with rejection
16. Dependent on others for sense of "self"
17. Views his or her problems as someone else's fault
18. May be above average intelligence
Source: Spence-Diehl. Stalking: A Handbook for Victims
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